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What is the Secret of Wedded Bliss?
Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 9:56 pm
by Northern Lass
Come on share it with us all
How have you and your beloved and in some cases yer spouse lasted this long in wedded bliss?
Compromise?
Turning a deaf un?
Agreeing and then doing your own thing anyways
Are you celebrating your silver, coral, ruby, Golden or longer
do tell

Re: What is the Secret of Wedded Bliss?
Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 10:02 pm
by Northern Lass
Re: What is the Secret of Wedded Bliss?
Posted: Sun Sep 06, 2009 2:10 am
by MarkCDodd
Once my wife discovered that I am
always right we have had no problems.

Re: What is the Secret of Wedded Bliss?
Posted: Sun Sep 06, 2009 8:41 am
by Northern Lass
MarkCDodd wrote:Once my wife discovered that I am
always right we have had no problems.

Ladies we gonna have to watch this one....
And another question for all of you
Do you remember the wedding anniversary with a card or pressie?
Re: What is the Secret of Wedded Bliss?
Posted: Sun Sep 06, 2009 12:35 pm
by gwen
Always make up after an argument, never sleep until you are friends, talk over any problems I think that should help

Re: What is the Secret of Wedded Bliss?
Posted: Sun Sep 06, 2009 1:42 pm
by Jimmy
DIVORCE
Re: What is the Secret of Wedded Bliss?
Posted: Sun Sep 06, 2009 1:46 pm
by Northern Lass
gwen wrote:Always make up after an argument, never sleep until you are friends, talk over any problems I think that should help

Good advice Gwen I think that is exactly right .....

Re: What is the Secret of Wedded Bliss?
Posted: Sun Sep 06, 2009 1:47 pm
by Northern Lass
Jimmy wrote:DIVORCE
Well that is one way of looking at it

Re: What is the Secret of Wedded Bliss?
Posted: Sun Sep 06, 2009 2:00 pm
by MarkCDodd
You didn't wait for part 2.
My wife will happily agree with me whilst thinking exactly the opposite and acting likewise when I am not looking.
Hence the horrific colour of the latest lounge suite.
Re: What is the Secret of Wedded Bliss?
Posted: Sun Sep 06, 2009 2:14 pm
by Annie
gwen wrote:Always make up after an argument, never sleep until you are friends, talk over any problems I think that should help

I agree with Gwen on those things plus my hubby is a softy and I get my own way most of the time.
Annie
Re: What is the Secret of Wedded Bliss?
Posted: Sun Sep 06, 2009 2:42 pm
by a5baggie
Re: What is the Secret of Wedded Bliss?
Posted: Sun Sep 06, 2009 3:35 pm
by Rob
Congratulations A5 !! What's the secret? Or is there a secret?
Gwen was on the right track always make up after an argument.Never let silence rule!! I hate with a vengeance silent arguments! Partners talking to each other through their children!!
Even though i'm nearly always in the right i always make the first moves after a "heated discussion".

Re: What is the Secret of Wedded Bliss?
Posted: Sun Sep 06, 2009 4:15 pm
by grangers14
Congratulations A5!
I agree with Gwen, but I dont think there are any rules to follow.
I also think that some tough times in your life can break a relationship but it can also make you stronger as a couple.
Remembering you are friends helps too, along with respect for each other.
Jo

Re: What is the Secret of Wedded Bliss?
Posted: Sun Sep 06, 2009 4:28 pm
by a5baggie
an elderly gent once told me the secret of a long marriage was two words "yes dear"

Re: What is the Secret of Wedded Bliss?
Posted: Sun Sep 06, 2009 4:35 pm
by dianepearson79
well only been married 18yrs so far, and tbh cant remember when we did ever argue, i remember a discussion over the dogs, (hehe 2 spaniels), never had a discussion over the kids (we both decided we would stand united when it came to them, and still do

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