UPDATE..............Frederick WESTON 1864:COMPLETED.

[sparkstopper]

There is this:
1881 30 Halesowen Rd. Rowley Regis...

Sarah Morris hd. wid. 59 PUBLICAN b. Gornall.
Susan Morris dau. 15 Dressmaker b. Gornall
MARY WESTON Serv. 21 Dom .Serv. b. Rowley Regis.

[Northern Lass]

Can you put the link on to that grave pls Sparks

what does it actually say

[sparkstopper]

The inscription does not seem to relate to a 1st wife.

[Northern Lass]

Where is Mary Jane buried?

any notes on the entry?

what does it say on census does it say wife?

do you have death certif where did the date of death come from?

[Northern Lass]

Sparks can I upload this to BCC pls

is it your own photo?

[Jimmy]

It could be that he promised to be buried with his first wife, and his second wife agreed to it.

[sparkstopper]

States Wife & Marr. on 1901 Census:
Photo taken in St.Lukes, Rowley.

Yes my own photo...a similar one is on the forum.

[Northern Lass]

Where is Lilian buried?

why isnt she buried there too?

[Northern Lass]

It could be that he promised to be buried with his first wife, and his second wife agreed to it.

That is exactly what happened with Wolvies parents

father is buried with first wife

[sparkstopper]

It could be that he promised to be buried with his first wife, and his second wife agreed to it.

She must have been a very understanding lady then, not my idea
of a black country woman.

[sparkstopper]

Where is Lilian buried?

why isnt she buried there too?

Don't know where she is buried...not on my connections...

[Northern Lass]

this is on the grave of first wife someone is buried with

"Of your charity pray for the repose of the soul of (1st wifes name)
The dearly loved wife of (Name of husband) who died Date aged XX years
Also of (name) the beloved husband of (name of 2nd wife) who died (Date) aged XX years RIP

I would expect something like the above with word wife on stone
unless they were related and never married

[Jimmy]

My uncle died in the 1970s his widow remarried, when she died in 1990s, she was buried with first husband.

[sparkstopper]

[quote="Northern Lass"]this is on the grave of first wife someone is buried with

"Of your charity pray for the repose of the soul of (1st wifes name)
The dearly loved wife of (Name of husband) who died Date aged XX years
Also of (name) the beloved husband of (name of 2nd wife) who died (Date) aged XX years RIP

I would expect something like the above with word wife on stone
unless they were related and never married[/qu

My thoughts entirely: I think Mary Jane was a relative and the
enumerator assumed they were married..Will leave this for now..
might send for a cert. sometime...

[Northern Lass]

or....they were living as man and wife and were rellies
and that is why they couldn't marry?

I may get that certif for Lilian and frederick as I want to be able
to connect up the tree if we can
shame we can't look it up