Couldn't find Meshach or Ellen, so I thought I would post the two Benjamin's to try and make sense of them all and maybe someone with new eyes might see something
#1 Benjamin married Ann Beard 13 FEB 1837 Kingswinford (extracted)submitted
BENJAMIN HACKETT
Christening: 13 SEP 1809 Rowley Regis
Father: JOSEPH HACKETT
Mother: MARY HACKETT 1841
New Street, Rowley
Benjamin Hackett 24 - Nailmaker
Ann Hackett 23 - n b in c
Jane Hackett 1
others b in county
Poss on Thomas Hackett with Grandparents
1841
Joseph Hackett 71 - Nail m
Mary Hackett 70
Ragan Parsons 13
Thomas Hackett 4
next door
John Hackett 44 - Nail m
Sarah Hackett 40
James Hackett 18
Ruth Hackett 17
John Hackett 12
Shadroch Hackett 11
Levi Hackett 7
Ephram Hackett 5
Rosanna Hackett 3
John Harkett 30 - Nail m - does look like he's living at the same addy
1851
22
Haley Green, Lutley
Benjamin Hackett 34
Ann Hackett 33 - b Dudley
Thomas Hackett 14
Jane Hackett 11
Margaret Hackett 8
Elizabeth Hackett 1 - b Haley Green
Nailors others b Rowley
1861
Linell
Short Cross Halesowen
Benjamin 44
Ann 43
Elizabeth 11
Sarah 8
Mary 5
Next door a Thomas Hackett aged 24.
This Thomas possibly married Maria Purcell
Father: Benjamin Hacket
Spouse: Maria Purcell
Marriage: 25 OCT 1863 Rowley Regis
Husband Age at Marriage: 22
Wife Age at Marriage: 21
Batch # I025049 1871
11
Short Cross, Halesowen
Benjamin Hackett 54 - b Rowley
Anne Hackett 53 - b Dudley
Agnes Hackett 4 - Granddaug - Halesowen
1881
10
Stourbridge Road, Halesowen
Benjamin Hackett 64 - Nail forger - b Old Hill
Ann Hackett 63 - b Netherton
1891
236
Cross Street, Hasbury
Benjamin Hackett 74 - Nailor - b Old Hill
Ann Hackett 73 - b Netherton
#2 Benjamin married Matilda Clift 19 MAY 1839 Saint Thomas (extracted)1841
East side of Hadley Street, Halesowen
Benjamin Hockett 25 - Painter
Netelda Hockett 20
Ann Hockett 1
all b in c
2 door away
Thomas Hacket 35 - Carter
Harriet Hacket 40
Ellen Hacket 11
Arthur 8
Alfred 6
all b in c
Extracted Marriage
THOMAS HACKETT
Spouse: HARRIET WHITE
Marriage: 16 NOV 1834 Halesowen
1851
58
Bulls Ring, Halesowen
Benjamin Wickett 35 - Journeyman Glazier?
Matilda Wickett 34 - Washer woman
Ann Wickett 11
George Wickett 6
James Wickett 1
all b Halesowen
1861
Linell
Whitehall Halesowen
Benjamin 44
Matilda 44
Thomas 19
George 17
James 12
Catherine 10
Frederick 7
William 4
1871
98
Birmingham Street, Spring Green?, Halesowen
Benjamin Hackett 55 - Painter journeyman
Matilda Hackett 55
James Hackett 22 - Painter journeyman
Catherine Hackett 20 - Dom servant unemployed
William Hackett 13
Fred Hackett 11 - (17) - Painter journeyman
all b Halesowen
Deaths Sep 1873
Hackett Matilda 58 Stourbridge 6c 87
Jun 1873
Hackett Benjamin 57 Stourbridge 6c 83