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by JerryS
Thu Nov 22, 2018 12:11 pm
Forum: Archived General Discussion
Topic: ARC TBC...Delicate subject ? impossible conundrum
Replies: 20
Views: 8587

Re: Delicate subject ? impossible conundrum

I will pass that on thanks
by JerryS
Tue Nov 20, 2018 9:32 am
Forum: Archived General Discussion
Topic: ARC TBC...Delicate subject ? impossible conundrum
Replies: 20
Views: 8587

Re: Delicate subject ? impossible conundrum

I am pretty sure they met after the war -
The father was only 18 in 1939. he was and apparently at Dunkirk ? unit. Sounds like he was 'a bit of a lad'
Allegedly went AWOL/Deserted; Had at least one wife.. plus fathered the index daughter in 1958.
by JerryS
Sun Nov 18, 2018 7:21 pm
Forum: Archived General Discussion
Topic: ARC TBC...Delicate subject ? impossible conundrum
Replies: 20
Views: 8587

Re: Delicate subject ? impossible conundrum

Hi Jimmy
Sorry for the delay been of line for a few days
As she wasn't married did not have an 'official' married surname utilised her 'husband's' name of Thomson DOB 12 11 1921
by JerryS
Wed Nov 14, 2018 10:50 pm
Forum: Archived General Discussion
Topic: ARC TBC...Delicate subject ? impossible conundrum
Replies: 20
Views: 8587

Re: Delicate subject ? impossible conundrum

Hello Forum Further to the suggestions above re using find my past and the 1939 register...... I have discovered that if I type in DOB and first names of the mother the system either regards her as having died under her birth name (obviously not correct) or as having migrated via boat (again incorre...
by JerryS
Wed Nov 14, 2018 4:44 pm
Forum: Archived General Discussion
Topic: ARC TBC...Delicate subject ? impossible conundrum
Replies: 20
Views: 8587

Re: Delicate subject ? impossible conundrum

Most helpful Gardner
I will let you know how I get on
Thanks
by JerryS
Wed Nov 14, 2018 2:41 pm
Forum: Archived General Discussion
Topic: ARC TBC...Delicate subject ? impossible conundrum
Replies: 20
Views: 8587

Re: Delicate subject ? impossible conundrum

Hi Gardener
I like that suggestion!!
People tend to keep their first names don't they?
I will try that avenue sounds promising

All I now need to do is get to grips with how to interrogate the 1939 register
Any suggestions gratefully received
Thanks again
by JerryS
Wed Nov 14, 2018 8:22 am
Forum: Archived General Discussion
Topic: ARC TBC...Delicate subject ? impossible conundrum
Replies: 20
Views: 8587

Re: Delicate subject ? impossible conundrum

Hi ELF1989 I must admit I had not considered this possibility. I am not sure about the practicalities of a DNA test - could you possibly expand? Are you saying if the daughter had a DNA test it could be matched with a close (maternal relative) assuming of course they had a test too? I do know exclus...
by JerryS
Tue Nov 13, 2018 1:24 pm
Forum: Archived General Discussion
Topic: ARC TBC...Delicate subject ? impossible conundrum
Replies: 20
Views: 8587

Re: Delicate subject ? impossible conundrum

Hi Gardener Thanks for the reply Daughter still alive I will look to see if there is any baptism record but assume it will have 'husband's' surname as all other documentation utilizes her 'husband's' name 'Wife' did not claim any benefits as knew daughter's birth certificate etc were incorrect and t...
by JerryS
Tue Nov 13, 2018 8:20 am
Forum: Archived General Discussion
Topic: ARC TBC...Delicate subject ? impossible conundrum
Replies: 20
Views: 8587

Re: Delicate subject ? impossible conundrum

Thanks for the comment I appreciate that it should - but it doesn't! The Mother used the 'husbands' surname as her own. Mother and daughter's surnames are that of the 'husband' 'Husband' died 2 weeks after daughter was born and mother lived under 'husbands' name for the rest of her life - death cert...
by JerryS
Mon Nov 12, 2018 9:14 pm
Forum: Archived General Discussion
Topic: ARC TBC...Delicate subject ? impossible conundrum
Replies: 20
Views: 8587

ARC TBC...Delicate subject ? impossible conundrum

Trying to trace "maiden' surname of a mother - suggestions gratefully received. The woman lived as 'husband and wife' -'Husband' possibly already married so no official marriage certificate 'Husband' dies 2 weeks after birth of daughter. Mother uses 'Husband's' surname for her and her daughter ...
by JerryS
Mon Nov 12, 2018 8:49 pm
Forum: The Archive
Topic: hello first entry
Replies: 3
Views: 1548

hello first entry

Hi Just joined - hoping to get a few questions answered but will look around the site and acquaint myself first. Best wishes

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